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Bittersweet Days Now

Well, after almost a month in our paradise on earth, we are getting close to returning home. It is a little sad but also setting our minds to be going home is difficult. I have already packed one suitcase and always looking around the apartment to keep in mind what NOT to leave behind.

We shared the first ten days with Don’s sister and her new husband and did 99.9 % of the island tourist places, and more. We went to Hana and had lunch, we drove everywhere except for the two “no-no roads.

We took them to the swap meet, to Lahaina and ate at Bubba Gumps and shopped; attended the Church in Makena and enjoyed a wonderful lunch with the congregation and other visitors. I don’ t think we missed many shops and they even went whale watching. We ate at Mama’s Fish House, attended the Old Lahaina Luau and also enjoyed some home cooking as well.

For the past two weeks, the two of us have been back to the swap meet a couple more times, ate at a few new restaurants (for us) and have relaxed completely.

We have walked the beach, listened forever to the crashing waves; never missed a setting sun, read a while and also became a little hooked on tennis and thanked God everyday for the opportunity to enjoy all these things.

Yes, it is bittersweet sometimes remembering where we have been, what we have seen, tasted and smelled on this beautiful island of Maui, but our home is calling us to return in another  6 days.

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Missing But Not Lost

Last week I did not post a recipe blog for a couple of reasons.  In no particular order,  a  family member came first.

The lady in question is a cousin of my husband and what a beautiful lady she is. She has the happiest smile and sparkliest eyes around. Her heart and what she says is truly just as beautiful. No bitterness here. She very recently lost her beloved Dan of 40 plus years of marriage and has chosen to carry on.

We did what most people do when company arrives, we drove around to show (brag, actually) of what our area has to offer. We went out to lunch a couple of times and then, and this is the best part, she brought albums of pictures of her life with her beloved Dan and their children. It gave us insight and we actually felt we really did get to know her better.

She and my husband were great friends when really young so it was  fun to hear them remember places and people they knew…family members long gone,but with funny stories still remembered.

I married into this family and did not know so many of the intricacies  that are woven together by genetic strings and, when meeting  further on in life, they are still as strong as if a spider wove them yesterday.

Family members are important. If estranged and nothing can be mended, then cut the string, forgive them and carry on.  Keep a close eye on family but do not interfere in their decision making, unless ASKED. Love them with all your heart.

I wasn’t lost (and I did miss putting on the recipes) but I didn’t want to miss one second of our visit together and to show her just how special she is to us. I also hope and pray that the heart-strings are now even tighter than ever and our visits together get closer and closer in the coming years.

Pauline…thanks for sharing your memories with us and for coming to visit with us. We had a blast.

 

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